My pastor has lived in Pennsylvania, and they seem to not want to indicate where you socially are but pull the drop on you when you seem out of line of what you could have done better/instead. Now, I'm wondering if priests at this church are right to condemn us. If you asked, they'd say that's only intended for some people, like me. I think even the people who are older in the congregation "play around" there because they have nothing to do. The younger people are too feisty. They overrate the pastor when they need to be more grounded so he doesn't seem to be misjudged as bad, like nothing they say matters cuz it's pushing and pulling at the truth in different ways in the end.