My dad also is being suggestive racially to me now, like before it would not be appropriate. I used to curse about noises in my room I thought Ellen helped put there, and I was afraid to curse at her so sometimes it happened to my dad who was very mean to me and also probably was responsible for the noises. He thinks it's anything goes, he can do what he wants now to me, so mean. He's always acting suggestive each day like he's better.