Someone nice is having their fair share of being mean to me it sounds like, and that seems dangerous. They keep having things be about things .. that are payback for something that if it bothers them like that seems like something I shouldn't have to worry about anymore.
I can see what they did, but it didn't have to happen.
..and how does it make sense to make life miserable and lie and say you're bad to get others to get away when you are putting yourself up to what you don't believe in or maybe you do.